Sir,
Glad you could make it. Look at my suspension list. Go with the strut tower brace first, as that in itself makes a huge difference. Next look at getting some subframe connectors to tighten up the chassis, and some bigger sway bars. After that, look at getting lower control arms and relocation brackets. Better shocks and springs, too. Get the Eibach Pro-kit springs, and some HAL adjustable shocks.
Visit
http://www.bmrfabrication.com for most of that stuff, as they have quality stuff, at an affordable price, with a good reputation. You've got a little more $$ than some of us, though, so you might look at getting all G2 stuff from
http://www.lgmotorsports.com They have high quality stuff, but its a little more expensive.